Getting Back Your Ex and Discovering Faith
To whom it may concern...
Thanks for reading this. I am free writing this blog. Just putting my thoughts down as they come to me. I am not concerned with proper grammar or punctuation. I pray that this blog can be of some help to you.
Through the grace of God and a little hard work, I made some pretty amazing things happen in my life. At 28 years old I managed to buy a home cash. It is currently valued at almost 700K. I made the money to purchase it in a year, I paid around 300K, I also managed to get every job I ever wanted and start a company.
The company is a for profit, software company. I started the company with a few friends, stuff I had around my house and donation from major corporations. When we release our project, our projected net profits may exceed 500K. I want to preface that both of my parents are immigrants. They are city and factory workers. I am not from any sort of entitlement.
My life has always been full of coincidences. My friends think I am lucky. An ex-girlfriend once mentioned that her family had tickets to see the Grinch on Broadway. That same day, while walking down the street, I met members of the show's crew. They showed me parts of the set and allowed me to take pictures. These sorts of things happen often to me. I think it is due to my love and respect for God. I am also thankful for the gifts I have received and the beauty of this world.
I dated and continue to date some of the most amazing women in the world. Though I currently feel a bit lost in love. Recently I had a breakup with a fiance. Lets call her J. I am putting the relationship in God's hands. God knows what is best for both J and I. I pray that God removes hardened hearts and brings peace to both of us. I am also working with God on fixing that relationship.
I think some of my relationships didn't workout because I turned my back on God. Not that God ended the relationship, but we both stopped following his teachings. I believe God wants you to have everything you could ever want, within reason.
How I got back my ex the first time...
In the past a truly remarkable girl broke up with me. lets call her L. After the breakup with L, I prayed and committed my life back to Gods teachings. I became a man worthy of being with L. Someone who would honor and cherish her. A few months after the relationship ended, I finally found myself at peace with the breakup.
I believe you have to be at peace with your ex. God isn't going to reconnect you with someone , if you have mixed or angry feelings towards them. Would you set a friend up on a date if they where not in the correct state of mind?
In respect to L I had left the relationship in God's hands. With time I also eventually found peace.
One day, with this new found peace, I boarded a train home from work. The train was a bit full. So, I was relieved when a seat opened up. Much to my surprise, seated directly across from the open seat was L. We got off at the next train stop and went to a bookstore for coffee. While there she began to cry and out of her purse she pulled out a collection of letters. She had been writing about all of things that went wrong in our relationship. With each problem she also wrote a solution and why she thought it had happened. She had been in as much pain as me. She wanted to get back together, jsut as much as me. We did get back together and at first it was wonderful. We continued to build our relationship though God. The sad part of the story is our relationship ended a year later. We allowed ourselves to return to a state out of God's grace. We both became selfish and relied on a rescuers, not God to moderate and guide our relationship.
In the next blog entry I will explain the rescuer, victim and attacker pyramid. I feel like it can be one of the most detrimental parts of any relationship.
